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Saturday, December 31, 2016

THE END OF 2016 -stop bullying-

omg omg omg its the end of 2016

alot of things happened in 2016 ...
there are happy memory ,sad memory ,broken heart memory  ,fall in love memory and even depression
but after all, this is life. I really thank GOD for everything.
This year i learnt alot ,this year i understood what is good for me and what is not good for me.

Thank god, I finally graduated from my university and got an outstanding score on the graduation day and have started to continue my new working life ,met a new partner on 2016
and this year  i learnt how it is, fighting for someone we love the most is ..... how to trust our partner .

I wish in 2017, there would be a lot of better stuff happening ,there is alot happiness ,and be as successful as my dad ,amine ....and lots of luck by this year ...amine ....
I also wish i can be more perfect in 2017 , I know that no body is perfect but i just hope i can change my self to be better in 2017 ,amine
i wish all my family and friend all ,and my reader all is happy and healthy forever .amine
and alot more wish that i cannot write here ,..hehe

in the end of 2016 ,i wanna blog about "stop bullying"

i really wanna blogging about this a few years ago ,but i didn't have time yet ..so today i wanna write it


what do you think when you see this picture ? 

i know in this life ...this kind of stuff is normal ...

but what's wrong with that girl who has plus size body  ?
she is pretty  in my eyes .and she is fine !
but why some people think that she is "different"? is it because of her body ?

oh God ...

do you know that not every girl is born with a proportional body size  ?
do you know if you saying those kind of stuff ( i mean like that in the picture )to  girl that have plus size body ,you know that you are hurting her ? she also have feeling ......she is same like other girl
she is no different ....

maybe because some people were keeping on bullying her ,keep saying annoying stuffs to her or maybe her BF hurt her ,or he compared her with another girl who is more slimmer than her ....she trying to change her self .....do u ever think about  how she feels ???????
who knows if she is trying to become slimmer now.... or maybe she is doing her best doing sport or maybe suffering in pain doing plastic surgery ...and you were saying bad stuff to her when she is on the way to become slim .....when she was trying hard to change her self ?

do you ever watch korean movie "200 pons beauty"




here the video  for you 

i watch this movie before and i cried like a river lol

short story .i have ever been in this situation ,yes before i have ever been fat ,at those time my weight is 60 kg or 65kg i am not sure  lol
and some of my friends keep mocking me ,maybe because she think she was prettier then me .and i am fat and ugly in her eyes ,,,,,,
until i got depressed those days ,and at those time  my bf fell in love with my own best friend ..... and he said that "you are not as pretty as her"  and "im too shy to date with fat girl"
waaaaa...i was really down at those time ....and i really hated my self .
I went mad at my self and i tried to diet with the "wrong way "  i only drank mineral water without eating anything for 4 days ,and in the end i got sick ... (dont do this ,i am disappointed with what i did)

and then after i became healthy and came back home from hospital, after a 7 day rest at home,
my dad and my mom ordered a private sport trainer for me ,so that i can do sport being controlled by my trainer who also helped me in dieting. After a few month  ,before my high school start ,i lost weight around 20 kg :D yay :D and then my mom took me to beauty doctor to help slim my cheeks ,because to be honest its really hard to lose chubby cheek or even double chin .and finally i can become "pretty"  lol i mean  pretty in my eyes ,because at least i am happy as who i am ...

after i am slimmer ,alot guy in my school  were trying to get close with me. One day, my ex saw me in starbucks ,he was with his new gf (who is my best friend) he looked at me in "awe" you know what i mean right ? and he said "how can u be slimmer in a few month after we never meet" and he said " i know that you are pretty,and you are the only girl who always understand my situation and always support me "  lol wtf dude ....

from my story
you know why i am really mad when i saw those "meme picture" or u said funny picture

i am really mad
i mean whats the difference ? she is not ugly  in my eyes ,she look fine and who said that fat girl cant change ? if she want to change she can change . but remember to do diet in safety way. ..

you know "EVERY GIRL IS BEAUTIFUL!!! AND THEY ARE BEAUTIFUL IN DIFFERENT WAY, WHATEVER YOU ARE SLIM OR YOU ARE FAT ,YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL "

and for guys ...pls dont ,dont hurt girl feeling ,and for all people  who has plus size friend ,dont bully her ,she is fine i mean she is normal and she have a heart .
dont do stuff which look like that in the picture on the top .it really hurts ,,,,stop bullying

i wish in 2017 there would be no more bullying case ...amine
lets change to better person ,lets change to be kind to everyone :) and stop bullying each other
stop bullying about everything,about size about skin ,about race ...we are same ,,,we are human who live in this world together ...... accept the difference and respect each other

this is for now :)
happy new year everyone !!!! GBU in 2017 !!!!!
love you all thank you for reading

-chandra chen yee- 

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